Ichigo Ichie
Ichigo ichie is a Japanese phrase that has its roots in Zen Buddhism and the tea ceremony. It had its start in the 16th century and means “one time, one chance,” relating to the transient nature of life. When a host prepares for a tea ceremony, it could take days to ensure that everything goes perfectly and a formal tea gathering could last up to four hours. The guests understand that the occasion can never be repeated, treasure the group encounter, and sincerely appreciate the efforts of the host.
The tea ceremony was originally practiced by the nobility and as tea became accessible to the common people, its practice spread throughout Japan.
This concept has been sewn into the fabric of Japanese life. One meeting with a person or group can never be repeated because even if you meet again the next day, all the elements of the previous meeting will have changed. Many tourists and friends of the Japanese have noted that the Japanese are gracious hosts and display consideration for their guests beyond common manners. This is the influence of ichigo ichie.
Also words to live by, in America, many people have seen this quote by Etienne de Grellet. They have clipped the passage and kept it in their wallets, posted it on the refrigerator door, and recited it to their children: “I shall pass this way but once; any good that I can do or any kindness I can show to any human being; let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.”